Feeling Unpretty?

Today, as I returned from church I listened to a TLC song called

Unpretty.

It was the national anthem for women when it was first released.

The song talks mainly about a woman who looks to other things to

bring happiness.

She is in a relationship that makes her feel like she is

worthless. Then she realizes

that if she looked inside herself she would realize her value

and not let it be defined by her partner.

October starts Domestic Violence month. My heart goes out to

all the women who fall victim to accepting controlling behavior.

They rationalize that it's okay because it does not happen all

the time. Or that it's because of how their partner grew up, he really does

love me. Because of this, their scream is silent and they cease

to exist. I know your pain and help is available.

In some cases, the abuser may not realize that they have abusive

behavior. Bottom Line: As human beings we have the right to

feel value and worth.

Love does not force it's opinion

Love does not control your choices

Love respects the uniqueness of your being

Dr Phil often says that in relationships we should aim to have

the other person feeling better about themselves after being in

our company.

Wouldn't the world be a better place if we all had the goal of

shining light in someone elses life, just because?

Are there people in your life that drain your value and worth

account?

You come away from them feeling unsure of yourself and

depressed.

If you are ready to have more out of life and don't know where

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were born to live.

There is no one else on earth that can do what God has given you

the ability to express.

Today is your day. It's not too late.